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5 Tips on Saving While Enjoying Your Honeymoon

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You have spent time and energy planning and you've already spent money pre-paying your honeymoon. One of the easiest ways to blow your carefully managed budget is to spend while on your honeymoon as if there is no tomorrow.Irish night life

The same caution you used in not paying for your special trip on your credit card is reminding you not to pay for your entertainment and meals on those same credit cards. In order to return home from your honeymoon totally sated, you must also incorporate a budget for your spending. Here are some helpful tips to help you stay on track.

1. Spend your evenings with locals

The best way to find a great dinner is to ask locals where they go out on special occasions. Ask the bellmen, ask the front desk attendants, ask cab drivers.

You'll should quickly hear the same two or three names. Those are the places you want to try. They're probably off the well-beaten tourist paths, but they also probably offer the best local cuisine in the area.

These establishments are likely to be smaller restaurants with better food and lower prices than the tourist restaurants along a hotel strip.

You should also drink what the locals drink. Cosmopolitans and Coors may be your drink of choice at home, but in Spain cava may be more economical while a local beer may be more cost effective in Munich. If you are in a region known for its local beer, now is the time to get acquainted.

2. Paying in cash

Many of us are used to pulling out our charge card for most of our purchases. By paying in cash, you can better control your expenses. Remember to bring enough local currency with you whenever you two go out, otherwiseGerman beer if you go out for dinner and drinks and are paying with a credit card, you can easily go over budget. Cash in your pocket means you must keep to your nightly budget.

As your evening progresses, drinks can get more expensive. Just remember, you will need cash to get back to your resort, hotel or inn. Bring enough cash for your transportation, and keep it separate.

A few US banks have a no-fee agreement with foreign banks but most do not. Verify your bank’s ATM agreements in your destination before your departure. If they are going to charge a huge fee, you should plan on withdrawing large amounts at a time. Please remember, only do this in areas where it is safe.

3. Pricing

It is so very easy to not have any idea of what things cost in a foreign country. If you don’t see a price list or don’t understand the price list, ask questions.

It's really great if you speak the language, but even if there is a language barrier, keep asking and you will persevere. (You can also carry a pocket dictionary or a smart phone translator like iPhone's Coolgorilla, which is available for 99¢ per language.) You certainly don’t want to get to the end of your evening only to learn that you have overspent.

Depending on your destination, beer may be more economical than wine or vice versa. Cocktails are without a doubt more costly. Absolut is no less expensive in Sweden where it is distilled than Svedka is in Sweden. You will be far better off and save loads of cash with a local wine or beer.

4. Tipping

In the United States, waiters are paid below minimum wage because tipping is heavily anticipated. Many of us have tipping tables in our wallets featuring 15 and 20 percent charts on specific dollar values.

In most foreign countries, however, waiters are paid a much higher base rate. So examine the tipping practices of your destination before your departure. Waiters may only expect to receive a maximum of 10% for outstanding service.London bus

Cab drivers in most foreign countries don’t expect a tip. If you feel awkward omitting a taxi tip, just round up to the next denomination.

5. Using public transportation

You will save big by using the local bus, train or even a cab. But in the case of a cab, be sure ask “how much” and understand the answer before you step into a cab.

You may also find that during the day, comfortable walking shoes can propel you to just the right sightseeing spots. Please don’t try this after dark unless your room is close to your evening’s entertainment and the streets at night are always heavily populated.

When you're attempting to remain on budget during your honeymoon, being aware of your spending habits is a great way to watch your costs.

Don’t forget to plan on a spectacular night or two on the town. But by planning on a couple of extravagant nights, you won’t feel as though you have spent the entire time penny pinching. By following these money-saving tips, you two can enjoy your destination for much less than you would spend otherwise.

photo sources: Irish night life, German beer, London bus


Emma McKnight is a travel agent specializing in cruise vacatioons. View her website at: www.CruiseWithEmma.com or contact her at: emcknightr@cruisesinc.com.

How to Get Great Catering

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There’s a sort of myth in the wedding culture that catering is some sort of raffle. It’s as if you’re supposed to take a lucky dip and hope you don’t get food poisoning on whatever your wedding budget allows. Not good enough. As a matter of fact, professional caterers can do practically anything with a budget, if you can give them a realistic upfront figure. Getting good catering is like getting good diamond rings. You do some research, shop around, and make sure you get what you want.

The trick to getting good catering is giving yourself time and a budget to work with. You need the time to find very good caterers who can deliver good quality at a fraction of the price of the upmarket-but-serial-gougers, who often economize on quantity while cranking up prices. The top professionals deliver quantity and quality.

Get fussy, and get networking!

Start your catering research with a very clear idea of what you don’t want. If you’ve ever been to one of those wedding receptions where the food is inedible and the drinks undrinkable, you know exactly what to avoid. If you haven’t been to one of those thinly-disguised funerals, don’t start now.buffet table

The basic criteria are easy enough:

  • Focus on fresh food with enough variety (some people don’t eat some things) and matching the service to the size of the guest list. You should have a good meal for everyone, a decent range of drinks, (remember the non-alcoholics too!) and preferably a great dessert. Coffee and after dinner drinks should also be offered.
  • You want good professional presentation, as well as food. The caterers should provide a full wedding spread with flowers, etc. as a package deal. This costs, money, but it’s a good quality control—and florists as independent contractors aren’t cheap either.
  • Having decided what you want, you can now get networking by getting recommendations from friends. This is a safety measure, as well as quality control. Someone may know a great caterer who can do the job for a sane price or provide truly excellent service for a good price.
  • Check out the recommended caterers and compare what you want to what they can deliver. You should get pretty close with at least one or two of the caterers and you can work on getting a good package deal.

Lock in the catering and make sure everything is scheduled properly

The common sense approach is to schedule everything well in advance and confirm all bookings well in advance. The venue, entertainment, transportation, etc. should have been booked well before you book your caterer. All the caterer needs to do is deliver on time.

Schedule your catering to be onsite and set up several hours before the due time. This allows time for a bit of quality checking, nitpicking and making sure everything’s OK before the reception. It also means you can double check and make sure you’re getting what you’re paying for. Everything should be perfect. If not, the extra hours allow for correction of the situation.

After all, it’s your wedding.

Photo source: BLH Photography


Paul Wallis is an award-winning professional freelance writer, working in the US, Canada, Australia and Belgium. He's published 13 books on lulu.com and some of his other work can be found at Digital Journal.

The June Bride’s Guide to Planning Ahead

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Engagement RingSpring engagements lead to June weddings, right? Not necessarily. It takes time to plan a wedding, and many reception halls, caterers and other services need to be booked months, or even a year or more, in advance.

Of course, it is possible to plan the quickie wedding. In her book Instant Weddings, Jennifer L. Shawne explains how to go “From ‘Will You’ to ‘I Do!’ in Four Months or Less.” Don’t count on the “or less” part, though. The average engagement lasts six months to one year, and depending on your plans, you may need that long to plan your wedding!

Assume you’ll begin planning for that June wedding while there’s still snow on the ground. First, you and your bride- or groom-to-be will want to sit down together and decide what kind of wedding you want to have. Set your budget, and keep it realistic. Decide where and how you want to get married, and reserve the site for your ceremony as soon as possible. Decide who will officiate your ceremony and check that person’s schedule. Then, make a wedding checklist and come up with a system for keeping records of all your plans.

January

Announce your engagement and ask family and friends to set aside your wedding date at least six months before the big day, if at all possible. For a June wedding, make your announcements right after the new year, February at the very latest. Other important considerations you’ll want to make as soon as you can include securing passports, if you’re planning a destination wedding or honeymoon, or other documents (like a birth certificate) you might need in order to get your marriage license.Invitations Ready to Go

February

Around the time the groundhog is seeing his shadow, make your guest list. By Valentine’s Day, you can begin addressing your invitations, registering for gifts, and shopping for the wedding dress. If you’ve decided to have your reception catered, hire the caterer now.

Not every wedding reception needs a traditional caterer. If you and your intended have a favorite bar or restaurant, call them up and ask if they’d be interested in providing the food for your wedding. Many take-out restaurants and grocery stores are able to provide party trays on short notice. For a less expensive option, have family and friends bring dishes to the reception, and host it as a potluck! If you choose this last option, though, be sure to let your guests know about any special dietary needs or food preferences you have in advance.

If you haven’t gotten your invitations already and find yourself needing them in a hurry, there’s no need for fancy engraving. Have a friend make customized invitations on her computer, or shop printers that cater to business clients (who demand much faster turnaround times than your typical wedding couple does). If you can, buy your post-wedding thank-you cards at the same time; it will save you a step, and you’ll probably get a quantity discount. You can also go to www.weddinginvitations411.com for last-minute invites.Cake Tasting

March

In March, when spring arrives and a young man’s fancy turns to thoughts of love, your thoughts should turn to tasting cake samples and ordering your wedding cake. Buy your rings; if you want them engraved, now’s the time. Learn the requirements for a marriage license where you live. You’ll want to get your marriage license six to eight weeks before the ceremony. Choose your bridesmaids’ dresses and decide what the groomsmen will wear.

April/May

In late April-early May, mail your invitations, if you haven’t already. Keep records of your RSVPs. Book hair and nail appointments for the day of the ceremony. Make your formal announcement in your local newspaper, if you wish. Hire your entertainment if you’re having a live band or a DJ at the reception. (Too late? Be your own…all you need is an MP3 player you can hook up to a sound system.) Choose your flowers and hire a florist.With This Ring...

June

When June arrives, all you should have left to do is confirming the arrangements you’ve already made, having the rings sized, making sure all members of the wedding party understand their duties, and picking up the suit and dress from the tailor or seamstress…and, of course, those last-minute details.

No matter how long it takes to plan your wedding, remember to enjoy the occasion. Weddings aren’t about the planning; they’re about the love you share and want to announce publicly. Create a “no-wedding plans” zone in your home, and set some time aside for you and your sweetie to enjoy, pressure-free.

Photo sources: rings, Rose Robinson; invitations, Mary-Lynn; cake, VirtualErn; ring exchange, marysecasol.com


Erin E. Schmidt wrote the "Here Comes the Bride" article in the May 2010 issue of True Love. She's the author of The Magical Girls' Guide to Womanhood and can be found online at http://erineschmidtsmith.com.

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Taking a Cross-Country Road Trip for Your Honeymoon

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Many couples dream of an exquisite honeymoon on a remote tropical beach thousands of miles away. However, reality has a nasty way of intruding.

The Open Road

Just the cost of an airline ticket is enough to put off even the most ardent tourists. Once you’ve added in a multiple night stay at a fancy hotel, it becomes clear that for some newly-married couples, there’s simply no way they can afford such a vacation.

But that doesn’t mean they can’t travel for their honeymoon—they’ll just have to look into alternate honeymoon ideas.

One such idea is taking a cross-country road trip for your honeymoon. Although not that glamorous, a road trip is a great way to see a lot of different places without blowing your life savings. For most people living in the United States, there are a lot of places in the country that they’ve simply never had a chance to see.

Road tripping usually means roughing it a bit. If you’ve stopped for the night in the middle of nowhere, there are no five-star hotels—only dinky little motor inns that look like Norman Bates’ motel. Gas Station

Instead of trips to the gourmet hotel restaurant, there will be a lot of trips to the local gas station where you run in and load up on candy bars while your dearly beloved fills up the tank. No, you won’t be lounging next to a beautiful pool and Jacuzzi—you’ll be scrubbing up in a tiny little shower. To really cut down on costs, you’ll have to shop at grocery stores and bring your own food instead of having the luxury of someone else cooking.

Many people might not want to do this for their honeymoon. They’ll say that they deserve something special and fancy to celebrate their marriage. But if you look at a cross-country road trip as an adventure where it’s just you and your honey against the world, it’s a lot more fun.

There’s spontaneity, mystery and excitement to be found on the road. Think of it as a metaphor for your marriage: you may not know exactly what lies ahead, but you’re going to find out together and have a load of fun on the way.

KissAlso, after the hustle and bustle of the wedding, it’s nice to be able to spend some quality time with your new spouse in solitude while on the road, without other people distracting you from each other.

The most important factor to keep in mind is exactly how much money you will be saving by taking a road trip. With proper planning and budgeting, costs may be as low as anywhere from $50-$75 per person per day.

For the amount of money you would have shelled out for a three-day vacation in Cabo, you can afford to take a three-week trip across the country. Kill two birds with one stone—get to know your spouse and your country better at the same time and take a honeymoon road trip!

Photo sources: car, Patxi Izkue; gas station, Riza Nugraha; kissing couple, pedrosimoes7


Ryan Embly is a writer for the website Car Rental Express; a website that provides cheap car rentals in the US.

How to Plan the Perfect Honeymoon: Aruba

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Formerly called the Lesser Antilles, the ABC islands lie immediately to the north of Venezuela. They are comprised of Aruba, Bonaire and Curaçao. These incredible locales are perfect for a romantic honeymoon esccape. Aruba is a flat island that is exposed to the ocean. Both Bonaire and Curaçao's reefs form popular tourist destinations as well.Aruba's Natural Bridge

Aruba

Whether it’s enjoying a candlelit dinner for two on the beach, a sunset sailing trip, or an evening of entertainment, Aruba will give you unlimited special memories.

Lazy days or active afternoons, each are spent in ideal harmony. Imagine yourselves hand in hand, exchanging comforting glances while strolling along white sand beaches bordered by the warm Caribbean Sea. Or maybe you're hitting the trail on horseback and racing into an island sunset, sailing through yet another cloudless day, or sharing laughs as you take on the bumps of the road of an island tour.

These are the many pleasures of Aruba… Welcome or Bonbini!

What makes Aruba so special?

One of the most recognizable Aruban sights is its bridge. Unfortunately, Aruba’s famous Natural Bridge collapsed on September 2, 2005. One of the largest natural bridges in the world, it was about 25 feet above sea level with a length of over 100 feet.

People were able to walk across and marvel in the dry, windy Aruba atmosphere, which is so very different from most Caribbean islands.

Dutch Colonial Architecture

Though this bridge is gone, right next to it is the Baby Natural Bridge, a smaller version. There are also six other natural bridges on this remarkable island.

Where to stay…

Several easily rented one- and two-bedroom 'Casitas' are located in tropical gardens, on what was an old coconut plantation. There are also many four and five-star resorts which line the Palm Beach, Aruba's best swimming area.

Most of the accommodations offer fantastic amenities through Aruba's “One Cool Honeymoon” program available throughout the year. Honeymooners receive a bottle of champagne in their room upon arrival, a souvenir gift from their resort, as well as a free night's stay upon their return anniversary visit. Newlyweds simply need to identify themselves at the time of booking their resort to automatically receive the above-listed package features for free.

Many cruiselines offer an Aruban port in its capital city, Oranjestad, on their southern Caribbean itineraries. Located on the southern coast, Oranjestad is extremely picturesque with its Dutch colonial architecture in pastel colors.

Along wharf, merchants come to sell fresh fish and produce right off their fishing boats every morning. The downtown area offers the primary shopping area on the island. Oranjestad is also the place to shop or to browse in the marketplace for Aruban art and local handicrafts.White Sand Beach

What to do…

Of course, this island paradise is a water baby’s sanctuary. You can scuba dive, snorkel, sail or parasail, wave-run, kayak, float, tube ride, water ski or even wakeboard.

You can also charter a catamaran, rent a villa with unlimited golf, or enjoy a night aboard a private yacht.

Some choose a spa day to luxuriate together in an aromatherapy floral bath and enjoy a heated-stone couple’s massage and a soothing chocolate wrap—truly decadent!

Storybook fantasies come to life with private candlelight dinners and moonlight strolls, picnics for two, horseback rides through the countryside, excursions to lush private islands, or just relaxing together on glittering white beaches under swaying palms.

Tucked away on the coast, the Natural Pool or conchi known as Cura di Tortuga is protected from the rough ocean currents by surrounding rocks. It's said that the pool once held sea turtles before they weDivi Treere sold (tortuga means turtle in Papiamento).

On quiet days, this pool is great for a swim. The location of the pool is surrounded by some of Aruba’s most rugged terrain, so visitors can really believe that they "discovered" a secret locale when their eyes reach the pool.

Diving from the rock cliffs into this protected pool of ocean water is the main reason so many trek off the beaten path to find this spot. Lost visitors here have help though, the trees always point the way back to hotel.

This is one of the most exotic islands in our hemisphere. Some may think it’s because it is so far from our shores. I think it may be because this is not your average Caribbean isle. If you set your sights on Aruba, you can surround yourself in an exotic paradise.

This can be the place to start your lives together. After the stress of planning your big day, this island will definitely quickly rejuvenate you.


Emma McKnight is travel agent specializing in cruise vacations. View her website at: Cruise With Emma or contact her for more information.

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